"Empower your authentic sexual self."
Meet Addy
(She/Her/They/Them)
"I'm Adelina Adler: educator, writer, & socio-ecological systems philosopher focused on serving the needs of my fellow Gender, Sexual, and Relationship-Diverse (GSRD) communities, sex workers of all kinds, curious kinksters, POC in the West, and anyone else looking for help building sexual and intimate relationship models that work for them, from the ground-up.
My body of work centers around empowering people to make intentional choices around relationship structure, agreements, expectations, and connection that truly align with their personal values, beliefs, and needs. My unique background, education, & collective experience make me the ideal ally to help guide you towards a more empowered, liberated, and honest relationship with your sexuality."
From the Community,
For the Community
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Exploring nonmonogamy?
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Navigating your queer identity?
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Seeking pleasure-positive, inclusive support?
As someone within the GSRD, Sex Worker, and neurodiverse community, I offer education, guidance, and connection from a place of both lived experience and academia. Whether you're deepening your relationships, embracing your desires, or looking for community, you’re in the right place.
Areas of Expertise
LGBTQIA+
GSRD
LGBTQIA+ coaching from a genderqueer, Pansexual coach ensures that you're in a safe, receptive space with someone who understands. Adelina offers personalized coaching to help you navigate your unique journey, whether it's exploring your gender identity, coming out, building healthy relationships, or finding community.
Workshops
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Seminars
Join Adelina for a series of dynamic, thought-provoking workshops & seminars that will help unlock your true sexual potential & teach you everything you need to know in order to enjoy a healthy, fulfilling sex life.
Sex Education
Get the comprehensive sex education you deserve. Adelina takes a holistic approach to sex education, going beyond the basics of STIs & pregnancy & covering topics such as pleasure, empowerment, & the latest in sexual research.
Pleasure Centered Model
Disengage from the Desire Imperative & Performance Models of sexuality. Learn to connect from a standpoint of centering pleasure and embrace showing up as you are in the bedroom.
Move away from trying to impress or show up in the ways you're used to and cultivate a collaborative, fun, intimate experience with your lovers.
Sex Worker Wellness
Some Sex Workers may develop a complicated relationship with their sexuality. Let's reconnect to your sexy! As someone who's been in the industry, Adelina understands the nuances behind these experiences & offers a safe, non-judgmental space where you are celebrated, cherished, & empowered.
Kink & BDSM
Looking to explore kink, but are feeling held back by shame or uncertainty? As a member of the Kink community, Adelina can offer guidance & support in discovering your deepest desires, connecting with like-minded individuals, & enjoying Safe, Sane, Consensual play.
Finding and Communicating Desires
It can be hard to pinpoint what gets you going! Using her signature CATIE method, Adelina will help you discover what's at the root of your desires & set you up with the skills to communicate, integrate, & actively participate in, your pleasure.
Shame & Sexual Empowerment
Let Adelina help you shed shame and tap into your authentic, sexual self. With a compassionate, knowledgeable approach, Adelina walks you through identifying & deconstructing society's toxic messaging around sex, challenging stigmas & cultivating self-acceptance, empowerment, & sexual liberation.
"Adelina is knowledgeable, kind, and patient enough to help you find the whole picture within yourself."
- Devin T.
"[The workshop was] A wonderful experience. Well explained and relaxing practices helping you return to your body,"
- Morgan T.
“I felt so comfortable the whole time. Adelina helped me challenge so many ideas that were holding me back. Feels great to be able to be excited about sex again!”
- Tara L.
Empowerment Through Education
Adelina believes that knowledge and community are powerful - especially when it comes to diverse sexuality & its many intersections. That's why she's dedicated to providing you with the most comprehensive and up-to-date information from trusted research around the world, along with the tools you need to feel empowered and confident in your own skin. Her classes cover a wide range of topics, from exploring your desires and boundaries to navigating communication and consent, embracing mindful embodiment, and more.
Additionally, keep an eye out for mixers & fun community-building events to find your people!
Whether you're looking to enhance your current sex life, embark on a new journey of self-discovery, or just are curious, I'm committed to creating spaces for you to explore.
Connect on Instagram and the Events page to book a class or seminar, and to see upcoming dates.
